The Three Stages of Communication with your Mistress

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Whether you identify as a Slave, Submissive, Fetishist, Masochist, Sissy or a Novice, the way you communicate your session requirements to Me is what allows me to create the perfect session for us to mutually enjoy. Applying for a session and saying ‘I just want to be dominated’, is not enough information, and is a bit like walking into a patisserie and saying ‘I like cake’.

Communication In Each Stage

Pre Session Communication – The first part of the pre-session communication is where I will decide whether or not I am going to accept the session request, based on how you have conducted yourself. I will not reply to effortless text messages, emails or phone calls. The application form on my website is the best way to inquire, I have made it so it answers everything I need to know in order to plan your session perfectly. You can simply list your interests/fetishes in which you wish to partake in, or you can give a brief description of how you’d like the session to go. If you have any roleplay ideas for example. It’s your chance to give me key information, perhaps you like to remain silent during the session, or maybe you’d like me to put you into situations with few words on my part. This is how you can communicate your own internal dialogue to me.

If I have accepted your request to session and we have arranged a date, you should follow my instructions for confirming the session, and when you arrive to have your tribute ready in an envelope. Before the session starts we can finalise what we have discussed and if all is well and communication has been clear, there will be clear chemistry and we can begin.

In Session Communication – If your pre-session communication has been clear, the session will flow well. Of course, there will be spontaneous moments unless agreed otherwise. Allow yourself to relax, and let your boundaries be pushed consensually. Enjoy it.

Post Session Communication – After the session has come to an end, I always offer an informal chat about your experience, but you may be so full of adrenalin and emotions that you may wish to wind down before you leave. I always welcome any thanks or thoughts via email if you prefer.

Your input to your own session is crucial unless you thrive off the spontaneity.

Methods of Communication

So now you understand the three stages of communication, you’ll need to know about the methods for the Pre Communication stage, and what I tolerate.


Email is my preferred way of arranging a session, direct to or using my contact form. I expect the 3rd or 4th email from you to be confirming that you have paid your deposit.

Phone Call

If you are calling by phone I’d expect you to know a date and time in mind that you wish to session. I don’t spend more than a couple of minutes on enquiry calls if you try to make the call longer you will be referred back to my website to send an email, this applies if you ask me what I offer, which is clearly stated on my website.

Text Message

I only allow regular clients to arrange a session via text message. If I haven’t seen you before, you will be asked to email or call.

Manchester Mistress Rhianne

My Love of Corporal Punishment

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Since I started my journey as a Dominatrix, Corporal Punishment has always been an area of my profession that brings a smile to my face. I enjoy and indulge in anything from a simple over the knee sensual spanking, to a severe caning.

The benefits of Corporal Punishment can be vast, it can be a cathartic, relaxing, ritualistic, or an intense experience. I love the roleplay side to CP, being a strict disciplinarian, a headmistress, or a head girl, the scenarios are endless and I always thoroughly enjoy them.

Corporal Punishment can be as straightforward as a red bottom from being spanked with the hand. It doesn’t have to involve being beaten black and blue. It’s important to know every one of my sessions is tailored to individual levels of tolerance, which is usually assessed in person unless you are very experienced and know exactly how you will react, so you know exactly what your limits are. 

A common question I get asked with Corporal Punishment sessions is, ‘will I be marked’. How much someone will mark solely depends on their skin type. It is much less likely you will have visible marks after a warm-up of spanking and paddles, then if you had a cold caning with no warm up, cold canings always result in marks. 

There are a different variety of canes which will also deliver different sensations as well as the marking. It depends what they are made of and how thin or thick they are, for example, some may opt for a stingy/whippy cane or thuddy/heavy cane. 

So whether you enjoy a relaxing OTK spanking, an adventurous roleplay CP session, or a strict no-nonsense Disciplinarian to report to for a thrashing, come visit me in my Manchester Premises, where both School Room and Dungeon Rooms are available. 

Manchester Mistress Rhianne 

The Art of a Ruined Orgasm

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Ruined Orgasms are a particularly fun and satisfying way to engage in Tease and Denial and Orgasm Control. A Ruined Orgasm is where all stimulation is stopped just as ejaculation begins. This, of course, means no stroking or touching the penis. While edging involves stopping stimulation just before ejaculation, a ruined orgasm pushes it just that little bit further, not stopping until seconds before release. The result is that the orgasm will just dribble out. Much less intense and satisfying than a full orgasm, but very entertaining and pleasing for Me to watch and deliver. Timing is crucial when delivering a Ruined Orgasm, I will take you to the point of no return.

It can be a powerful tool for controlling a submissive, keeping him obedient and focused on his subservience. They can also be included in a variety of Femdom games or be combined with a sensual session of edging, not knowing when or if you are allowed a full orgasm, or whether I will ruin you a few times during a session.

After a ruined orgasm has been given, many men will remain hard and do not suffer the post orgasm ‘slump’ that occurs with a full orgasm. The slump I am referring to is when all interest and energy is lost after a full orgasm, instead, the feeling of arousal remains. This is because his brain does not release any of the hormones associated with the post-orgasmic afterglow. He will not experience the muscle contractions as a full orgasm would create, meaning he will feel incredibly frustrated.

There can be many ways to ‘Ruin’ an orgasm. Restricting the flow of cum, adding physical pain, or distraction methods. It can be followed by an Intense Milking or Post Orgasm Torture. Ruining doesn’t have to be painful though, but it will be frustrating.

Ruined Orgasms are a LOT of fun, as you will find out from my sardonic smile when I deliver one.

Manchester Mistress Rhianne

Smoking Hot Manchester Mistress

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We all know smoking isn’t great for you, and the more unacceptable it has become the more it resonates with being a ‘bad girl’, connecting itself with Femdom. I myself do not smoke daily, in fact, some weeks I don’t smoke at all. I guess I am a ‘Femdom Smoker’, with the occasional indulgence socially.

Smoking can be seen as erotic and fetishistic, blowing smoke into a sub’s face can be intimate, having them look into my eyes as they take something from me inside of them, exchanging my breath. Smoking is a hypnotising and intensely erotic act, one that which I thoroughly enjoy performing.

The attention to the lips and hands are also a part of smoking fetish. The sheer air of elegance you see whilst watching my red lips stain the end of the sucked tips of the cigarette. You may choose to have my hands bare so you can admire my nails or see them gloved, smoking from a cigarette holder, just like Audrey Hepburn from Breakfast at Tiffany’s.

Perhaps you want to be my Human Ashtray, kneeling before me awaiting each flick into your willing mouth. Maybe you want to inhale my smoke through a gas mask as part of breath play, or include some roleplay too. Whatever your desire, come and fulfill it with me, and I trust you will remember it for a long time to come.

Smoking Fetish and Human Ashtray can be incorporated into sessions or be the sole focus of a session. If you are interested in serving Me for a luxurious smoking session, or whether you want to be my Human Ashtray, check out my Contact page for details of how to book a session with Me at my chambers in Manchester, North West.

No ridiculous requests, such as – Rolling you up in a cigarette, and smoking you. (Yes, I have been requested this before).

Manchester Mistress Rhianne

Manchester Kidnap Mistress

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Fantasy Kidnap & Abduction has been something I’ve always wanted to try, so I was hugely excited when an existing submissive was ready to live out his ultimate fantasy. It was thoroughly enjoyed and I am now officially offering Kidnap sessions in and around Manchester with a fellow Mistress.

Kidnap sessions can be tailored to your desires and fantasies, a minimum of two hours is required for booking a Kidnap with the option of being brought back to the dungeon for interrogation or whatever roleplay you desire, and longer drawn out kidnaps are possible with an overnight stay in cell.

Your reason for being kidnapped can be decided by you, planning your own fate, or you can leave that in the hands of me to decide. The planning of a Kidnap is key so serious enquiries only, I will also be dedicating a page on my website for Kidnap which will be coming soon.

Manchester Mistress Rhianne

Fantasy/Fetish Roleplay

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I have recently done a few realistic Femdom Roleplay sessions, and I have fully enjoyed them.

The role an individual can take really is endless, and everyone’s fantasies are very different. I am an incredibly good listener who will be patient with you, understand you and be able to interpret and unravel that fantasy you have in your mind. It will no longer be a dark secret that has been locked away for many years.

I have listed a few ideas for Role-play based sessions below, if your fantasy isn’t listed you can still enquire, I am non-judgemental.

Head Mistress/Head Girl – Schoolboy/Girl- Where a school room scenario forms the foundation of the play. You are summoned to the office for misdemeanors. Punishment can include spanking, caning, or straps can be used with the male being a school boy or dressed as a school girl.

Doctor/Nurse- Patient – The Medic takes the dominant role and gives the patient an erotic examination whilst restrained in the gynecological chair. This could encompass internal anal examination, penis inspection, shaving, stretching, sounding, electro play. The patient could be forced into a female gender role or can stay as a male.

Female Prison Officer – Convict – You have been caught commiting a crime, you are stood in front of officer Rhianne, what will your punishment be?

Female Boss/Manager – Male Employee – The Female brings her male employee in for an appraisal of his work after hours and decides he is slacking/making sexual advances to other female members of staff and threatens he is to lose his job or take a punishment. Punishment can involve pain activities, humilation tasks, foot worship, or turned into a woman and used with a strap on. The list is endless!

Kidnap/Interrogation– A male is kidnapped from an arranged place by a dominant female/s and taken captive. Held in a dungeon or interrogated or used as a sexual toy/tortured/played with.

Mistress/Dominatrix – Slave- where the slave is required to comply with all demands of the Mistress/Dominatrix. He is stripped naked collared and trained for her pleasures, whims and needs.

Maid Training/Slut Training – Where the male is fully dressed and shaped as a submissive female and trained as the dominant females maid/servant-having to undertake all menial and sexual tasks the dominant female enforces. The male is dressed as a slut and used as the dominant females bitch.

PE Teacher/Personal Trainer – One for forced exercise, sweaty foot worship & scissor hold lovers. Be smothered by your Personal Trainers feet after slacking in your exercise regime.

Tie and Tease – Dominant female seduces a male and puts him into a state of restraint and uses his body to tease and torment.

Do you have a fantasy Role-Play you want to act out? Apply for a session with Me in my Manchester Chambers. Visit My contact page to apply.

Manchester Mistress Rhianne

Booking a session with Me

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Please make sure you read my website before enquiring about a session with Me. This blog covers the basics but my Website has the answer to most questions.


I am based in Whitefield, North Manchester. I session from a prestegious chambers which consists of various dungeon and domestic rooms and also a Medical and Sissy room.

The Dungeon is easily accessible by Car (Junction 17 off the M60), or by Tram. Nearest tram stop is 5 minutes walk away.

The building is discreet, and also has private parking.


I am available Monday to Friday between the hours of 9am – 4pm.

I session ONE Saturday per month. The date of my Saturday sessions are announced on Twitter.

How to contact Me and book a session

If you know exactly what type of session you want and when you’d like to visit me, I prefer you call up and book your session, otherwise fill out my contact form for me to read over first.

Questions that can’t be answered from the information on my website are welcome, but I require a deposit to discuss the session plan in detail. This can be paid via bank transfer, or an Amazon gift card.

Do NOT try to book a session via text message. It is paramount that I speak with you on the phone prior to accepting you for a session.

Session day

On the day of the session you will need to confirm your appointment via text message or by calling me, by 9.30am. I will then send you the post code. It is important that you let me know if you are still attending or not, so I can inform the Dungeon and also plan my work day.

When you arrive for your session you will be greeted with a smile, I will offer you a glass of water or hot drink before the session starts.

Discretion is carried out at all times, you won’t bump into another client when in the Dungeon.

I prefer the tribute to be handed to be in an envelope. You should hand this to me when we enter our Dungeon room.

The Session

Visit my sessions page to see exactly what I offer in my sessions. My sessions are not rushed, and I don’t clock watch. You are welcome to shower after the session, and we can have a chat about your experience should you want to.

Webcam / Phone Sessions

I use Adultwork to webcam and phone chat from.

I do not use Skype.

Sensation Play and Sensory Deprivation

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Playing with the senses gives Me much enjoyment. Pairing sensory deprivation with sensation play is a great entry point into the world of kink. Manipulating the senses allows you to gently dip your toes into the BDSM waters instead of diving head first into the deep end of the pool!

What are they? Sensory Deprivation is removing one or more of the senses so that the other senses become more magnified and focused. Using a blindfold will make you focus a lot more on your hearing, touch and smell.

Sensation Play is most effective when it involves opposing types of touch, for instance, rough followed by soft, fast and slow, hot and cold, firm and gentle. This type of thoughtfully applied stimulation gets our endorphins and adrenaline flowing.  

The hands are the most versatile sensation play tool, massaging or tickling with lightly stroking fingers. Light slaps and pinches are also an option for those that enjoy low-level erotic pain.

With those who are into this type of play, and of course those who have consented, I absolutely adore starting off a session that involves this Kink, by blindfolding you at the door. You’ll be on edge as to when I take your blindfold off and let you see Me.

What am I wearing? Where am I taking you? You can smell my perfume and you are listening for any movement and the hairs on your skin are raised ready for the slightest brush of a touch.

I tell you to grab hold of my hips as I guide you upstairs to the Dungeon room. What do you feel, my Rubbery Smooth Latex, or my Soft Satin Lingerie? Perhaps I’m wearing Leather. Your sense of touch and hearing are increased and your body is a mixture of nervousness and excitement. 

You can hear my voice and classical music, but now, its time for the earplugs and headphones. You are going to lose your sense of sound. My voice is becoming muffled as I’m placing on your headphones and taking away your second sense.

You’re now focusing on your sense of smell, and only when you smell my perfume you know I am close. I am standing over you just a few millimeters away. I squeeze your nipples and your body shudders.

My fingers wander to your inner thighs and I’ve only just got started on sensually teasing you…

Manchester Mistress Rhianne

Strap On | Pegging

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Chances are you’ve already heard of it, but if you haven’t, pegging is a sexual practice where a woman performs anal sex on a man – by using a Strap On. It is one of my favourite activities, I really enjoy the Dominance I feel when stepping into my Strap-On harness with my sub looking at me, awaiting penetration.

Sometimes Pegging elicits responses of shock and judgement, but it is simply about pleasure. Some people assume that if a straight man enjoys being penetrated, it makes him gay or unmanly, which is utter rubbish. The male G-Spot is found at the Prostate Gland, which stimulates an intense orgasm when penetrated, so why let homophobia and gender roles get in the way of mind-blowing orgasms?

Pegging is a way to submit to me the most intimately. I find it an erotic experience visually and physically. Some subs like to be feminised when taking Strap On, this allows them to really get into role reversal. Sissification is not necessary for a Strap On session, though.

You might wonder how I would manage to fit one of my thick looking cocks into your tiny virgin bottom! Strap On is achieved by stretching the anus, this is done by using fingers and butt plugs and lots of lube! If you’ve already explored with your own fingers and toys you may be ready to take one of my more advanced Strap-Ons as shown in the photo above.

Preparation is always important for Strap On sessions, and its best to Douche beforehand!

Manchester Mistress Rhianne

Sissification & Feminisation

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Ever felt the urge to explore your feminine side? Silky pants rubbing against you? Sitting pretty in front of the dressing table, softly brushing your wig? Perhaps your mind has wandered into being made to worship in Mistress’s Strap-On.

Sissification or Feminisation is a sensual session. It involves the switching of gender role of a male submissive. The Sissification process ultimately involves Cross Dressing. Some just like wearing lingerie and heels, but others may want to go all the way. This may include wearing makeup, wigs, shaving or waxing, manicures and pedicures.

My Sissies are always expected to behave in a feminine manner. This involves good posture, being trained to walk properly in heels and being able to sit nicely. Although my sissies are expected to behave like a good girl, some of them have a very naughty and slutty side to them. Strap-On and Anal training are good to put these dirty girls in their place. If they misbehave they may be punished with some spanking!

For the sluts who have excelled in their Sissification, they may be made to do more humiliating things for Mistress. They may be made to swallow real cum, or even be used by another man! These boys allow themselves to be feminised because they know that it is their proper place in the world, and the only way that they could ever make me happy.

Of course, the Sissification process does not have to end there. Mistress has many ways of pushing you to even further extremes depending on your devotion as my slut…

So what are you waiting for, come and explore your fantasy with me!

Manchester Mistress Rhianne